Love is not a four letter word for nothing. I don’t hate lovers or people who combine in holy matrimony, but this whole concept of uniting in spirit doesn’t appear logical. Instead of two people uniting to become one, what you generally get is two people trying very hard to superficially fit into each other’s lives. What’s more, they are dependent on each other financially, emotionally, physically and mentally. And more often than not each partner is left guessing about what the other person really wants. In these times of heightened individuality; there is hardly any room for another one at the top. And what if it doesn’t work with that special someone? Is a second or third option equally fulfilling? And why does that special feeling, an instinct you feel for someone fade away? Why do we make wrong choices, especially since they are our gut and instinctive ones?   

I’ve seen ample cases of relationships souring, of turning bitter and definitely, it isn’t true that fighting and squabbling are signs of love. I think if you are an inspired human being, thinking about the welfare of others; if you have a higher vision and goal in mind; you yourself will be enough. Loving more than one person platonically is surely greater than sticking to just one human being for a lifetime. I think love is just a very clever way in which we fool ourselves into believing something that is just not real. Historically, the Romantics wouldn’t have had such a tough time proving their case, if everything was OK with love. What we actually see is that love degenerates very quickly into lust and is nothing more than a physical sensation, a titillation of the senses, which any human being can really do without. Unfortunately, it never has an end and is meant for us to realize its limitations in the first place. A lot of lovers will believe otherwise, claiming that love is a very difficult path and meant only for tragic ends. If it’s so hard and tragic, why not do without it?  

Love also entails a subtle sense of bondage and attachment and it’s a universal truth that bondage leads to suffering. Love suffocates instead of liberating. Love calls for unnatural attention to the physical world, when there are more important things to think of. How come you don’t want to break free yet? Love can never lead to happiness because happiness is about your within, not your objective without.

Neha Singh

Valentines day special at NYASA

 
Welcome to Nyasa, a pretty little store of natural bath and beauty products.
Adding to the ambience is its cozy coffee shop, a truly suburban delight.  
Treat yourself to a light snack and refreshing ice tea to have a complete experience.  

Do visit the place on the 13th and 14th to avail of special 20%discount offers.
 
Address:
Nyasa,
18th A Khar,
Next to Laxminarayan temple.
Mumbai.

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Valentines Day - Bazaar & Bling @ Candies

This Valentines day, Bazaar & Bling will include:

All day… food, fashion and more….

Clothes & Accessories by:
Anusha Lalwani
Black Sheep
Canvas by Urvee Adhikaari
Creations
Fahrenheit
Flats flip flops
Hooked
Shristi
What the Funk
Zia

Jewellery by:
Advaita
Aquamarine
Cristalline by Rekha Wadhwani
Soul Of Silver
Sunita Ranglani

Bath & Body Products by:
Nyassa

Home & Gift ideas by:
Nir
Shanti

Nightwear & lingerie by:
Lace

Art & gift products by Aseema - An education centre for underprivileged children

Take a break and try a reflexology massage by visually impaired masseurs from Metta Spa.

Pamper yourself and feel glamorous with nail art, hair extensions and more by Ti Amo.

Also, get your very own signed copy of ‘Back Seat’ - the novel by Aditya Kripalani.

All this and more on Saturday, Feb 14 (from 11 am to 9 pm, at Candies @ Mac Ronells (Level 2 - Hall and Garden)

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It’s Valentine’s Day Again! Many legends and myths surround the celebration of this day. Most agree that it is named after St Valentine who contrary to all decrees forbidding marriage, carried out secret weddings for young lovers.  Did you know there is an old superstition that if you see a robin on St. Valentine’s Day you will marry a sailor. If you see a sparrow, you will marry a poor man. If you see a goldfinch, you will marry a millionaire. So beware where you look!

Here are some Love Quotes by some of the most well-known writers. Share these quotes with your loved ones and wish them happiness.

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Come live in my heart and pay no rent.  — Samuel Lover

Love is what you’ve been through with somebody.  –James Thurber, quoted in Life magazine, 1960

Love is being stupid together.  –Paul Valery

Love is the greatest refreshment in life.  –Pablo Picasso

What the world really needs is more love and less paper work.  –Pearl Bailey

The most beautiful view is the one I share with you.  –Author Unknown

If I had a single flower for every time I think about you, I could walk forever in my garden.  –Attributed to Claudia Ghandi

As soon go kindle fire with snow, as seek to quench the fire of love with words.  –William Shakespeare

My heart to you is given:
Oh, do give yours to me;
We’ll lock them up together,
And throw away the key.
–Frederick Saunders

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There are variety of books that interest people and are read for pleasure or to gain knowledge.  While some prefer reading love stories some others prefer science fictions. In fact books are the most treasured possessions in anyone’s life. There is no legacy greater than the legacy of books. The top romantic books refer to all such books that deal with the stories of love and romance. These books delve into the depth of romance that enables you to see it happen in real life too. Romanticic books are a great way to have an enticing time and are liked by everyone especially youngsters. Romantic books bring everyone who reads them into the perfect romantic mood.

   Lady of Desire
‘Lady of Desire’ is a story of a lady who, much unlike her mother, is a beauty and far apart from any scandals. She runs away from home when her brother fixes her marriage, only to come across a notorious leader of the thieves. He belongs to a much coveted family and, falling in love with her, returns back to his home to become a good person and woo her love. Gaelen Foley’s novel is a moving tale of how love can change people and make them better individuals. 

  Taken by Surprise
Written by Susan Johnson, ‘Taken by Surprise’ revolves around a game which turns into the most unlikely fashion. The story is a tale of a lover and a prohibited encounter which he makes. This leads him having both desire and danger around him. An enticing story, ‘Taken by Surprise’ focuses on all the aspects of love. 

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  Pride and Prejudice
One of the most famous novels by Jane Austen, ‘Pride and Prejudice’ is all about five sisters and the turmoil they go through when a wealthy man and his best friend arrive in their neighborhood. Published in 1813, the novel is a classic tale of love and values.

   It Had to Be You
Written by Susan Elizabeth Phillips, ‘It Had to Be You’ is a contemporary romance novel that brings across the story of a young woman who struggles against all odds to make her life perfect. An enchanting story of two stubborn people who believe in playing for keeps, it showcases the magic of being in love as well as being loved.

   The Bride
Written by Julie Garwood, ‘The Bride’ is about a couple in which the partners complement each other perfectly. Both the characters are strong-willed and learn to adjust to each other with time. A classic love story of deep passions and great love, it is surely worth a read!!

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You might be thinking, only a human being can be romantic but here is a whole new outlook. Some of the cities in the world are as romantic and can make you go weak at knees when you tour them. There is something in the air of the place that you feel romance taking over any and every other feelings. These cities bring joy and happiness to your face and bring out the intensity of your love. If you get a chance to visit any one of these most romantic cities listed here, dont miss it and fly into a fantasy world, where everything is rosy and beautiful and romatic.

  Paris
The capital of France, Paris is one of the most romantic cities in the world. From the attractive beauty of nature to the historic appeal of the yester years, the place has it all. The ‘City of Light’, as Parisians call it, is also known for its literature and fine cuisine. If you are a lover of good wine and fond of desserts, there can not be a better place than Paris. There are numerous tourist attractions in Paris, not to forget Eiffel tower, where you can declare your love to your beloved!!

  Venice
One of the most romantic cities in the world, Venice is suppose to be an utmost delight for lovers. Also called the ‘Floating City’, it offer you unique water landscapes, along with the mystic greenery, and spins a magical yarn for the lovers to dwell in. An irresistible charm that the city exudes along with its perfect ambience is a major turn-on for any couple.

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  San Francisco
Are you ready to explore the best of nature? San Francisco is sure to provide something to match to the liking of all. The glorious greens of the Golden Green Park, the breezy stroll at the waterfront or the exciting ride at the colorful wooden cable car, the options are too many for the love birds to explore. It is the ultimate destination for a couple to revel in the natural beauty and have a great time!

   Vienna, Austria
Enthralling and ever-lasting, Vienna is sure to be a delightful destination for a couple. From the serene sunset spots to trendy love nests, you have a range of romantic options to impress your other half with. Get carried away with the romance of the place and make the holiday special for your partner.

   Monte-Carlo
Alluring and appealing, Monte-Carlo strikes just the right chord of romantic essence that lovers dwell in. The city is beautiful with its breathtaking landscapes and idyllic beaches. The extension of Monte-Carlo into rock and sea will gives you the perfect opportunity to spend some tranquil moments with your better half.

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